Before Bed Activities to Perfect Your Evening Routine

Morning routines are sexier, but for self-improvement, evening routines matter more! I learned while traveling through Asia that great days start the night before. An intentional, well-structured evening routine can help you reflect, decompress, and prepare mentally for an energized tomorrow and, more importantly, get quality sleep.

In my years as a life coach, especially working with students and young professionals in Asia, I’ve seen how powerful it is to end the day in a calm, reflective state. If you want to Face your Dragons so you can live a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life, you need this.

Read on and discover what I do before bed, a few habits to avoid, and how to design an evening routine that naturally leads to a more purposeful morning.

8 Things to Do Before Bed

You can do anything as part of your evening routine, but these eight are the best evening routine ideas that promote productivity and good rest.

1. The Night Was Made for Reading

It turns out Byron was wrong.

“Reading is the best habit for anyone who cares about personal development.”
The 1970 British Cohort Study, which is still ongoing (that’s 55 years at the time of writing this), found that a reading habit makes a bigger difference than anything else when it comes to intelligence and success.

I tell my coaching clients this regularly. When I lived in Asia, I was constantly inspired by how bookstores bustled at night. People would read to relax or learn new skills after a long day. Unwind, calm the mind, and expand your knowledge.

  • What to read: Choose personal development, memoirs, or spiritual works—anything that helps you grow or simply brings you joy.
  • How to take notes: Keep a notebook, digital note-taking app, or second-brain system handy to jot down key insights.
  • Reading in bed or not?: Reading in bed can help you drift off, but if you’re trying to build a strong reading habit (beyond just relaxing), read earlier in the evening or in a cozy chair.

Reflection or Prayer at the End of the Day

People of all faiths have said their prayers before bed for thousands of years. It helps them review the day, recounting the good and the bad and closing it out before heading to the land of nod.

There are plenty of ways to spend some time in quiet reflection or prayer, even if you’re not religious.

  • Meditate
  • Talk to a higher power
  • Write in a journal or diary
  • Take Bible notes
  • Ask yourself what you’re grateful for
  • Ask yourself what went well and what didn’t

Take a Shower or Bath to Wash the Day Away

A popular trick among high achievers is to take late-night hot showers (or baths) to help reduce your core body temperature afterward, signaling your brain it’s time to sleep. Usually, an ambient temperature of 65°F (18.3°C) is recommended in the bedroom to help induce sleep.

  • Why it works: After a hot shower, your body releases excess heat. This drop in temperature promotes melatonin release and drowsiness.
  • Temperature tip: Keep your bathroom cool if possible, to enhance that temperature drop post-shower.

As the body temperature drops, it becomes ideal for falling asleep. Try it.

Set Up Your Room for Optimal Sleep

Your environment is crucial. In China, we slept on bamboo slats instead of cotton sheets in the summer as it kept us cooler. Traditional bedrooms often focus on creating a calm, minimalistic space. Here’s what to aim for:

  1. Darkness: Invest in blackout curtains or a quality sleep mask. Even small amounts of light can trick your body into thinking dawn is coming.
  2. Quiet: Use earplugs or a white noise machine if needed.
  3. Cool: Around 65°F (18.3°C) is the gold standard for better sleep.

An optimized sleep environment helps you wind down and drift off into deep, restorative rest.

Trust Your Internal Clock, but Set an Alarm, too.

Setting the alarm might be part of your current evening routine, and for a good reason. You need to be awake for work.

Although experts will tell you that you should wake up naturally, it’s not always an option. It’s not worth losing your job over. But if you are getting the required amount of quality sleep, you should be able to wake up on time.

If you can’t, you likely have a sleep issue to resolve. The tips in this article should improve your sleep, but if you’re still struggling, speak to a medical professional specializing in sleep disorders.

Prepare Your Outfit

An evening routine should complement a morning routine. You don’t want to burn out in the morning with many small decisions. When I started Face Dragons, I realized how many micro-decisions in the morning drain our willpower. During my coaching sessions in Asia, it was clear that a little planning the night before dramatically reduces morning stress.

  • Pick tomorrow’s outfit: Lay it out on a chair or hanger.
  • Plan breakfast: Whether it’s a quick smoothie or jian bing guozi (a popular spicy pancake I fell in love with in Tianjin), decide ahead.

By freeing your mind from these small decisions, you preserve energy for your day’s bigger “dragons.”

Create Tomorrow’s To-Do List

To-do lists are like weird voodoo magic. They make everything seem easier. Why?

  • You don’t need to remember what to do
  • You don’t need to decide what to do

You look at the list and start doing whatever is next. But making a to-do list in the morning, while doable, will rob you of some of that decision-making energy that Roy Baumeister talks about in his book “Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength.”

Tidy Up

No one wants to wake up to a mess, even if it’s yours. Each day should be a new chance to do whatever you wish, so starting with a clean slate is essential. Before you go to bed, spend a few minutes making the living room, kitchen, or wherever you spent the evening look nice. You’ll appreciate it in the morning.

Avoid

Now you know some of the best things to do before bed, here are some of the worst ideas for your morning routine.

Eating Too Much Food

Late-night eating has always been discouraged by health professionals and fitness fanatics, but why? Is eating before bed really going to ruin your sleep?

Alexis Supan RD, of the Cleveland Clinic Center for Integrative and Lifestyle Medicine says, “When you eat late at night, you’re going against your body’s circadian rhythm.”

You eat to supply your body with energy so you can do the day’s tasks, so eating before bed naturally confuses the body. It expects you to do something with all those calories.

But eating before bed doesn’t only hurt your sleep. It’s also easier to gain fat this way. Insulin levels are higher in the evening, so any calories you eat will quickly be stored as fat.

New research, however, shows that you can eat small amounts of food without it affecting your health. This study shows that meals of less than 150 kcals “does not appear to be harmful.”

Supan agrees, “If you’re really hungry, steamed or raw vegetables is the best way to go.”

Drinking too Much at Night

Managing interruptions to sleep is vital here.

If you’re drinking a full glass of water within the last hour before going to bed, needing to pee in the middle of the night will likely reduce the quality of your sleep.

If you sometimes need to get up to go to the bathroom during the night, it’s a sign that you need to reduce the amount you drink before bed.

Sleep disorder specialist Dr. Vensel Rundo advises, “As a general rule, drink less than a glass of water in those last two hours before bedtime if you have to. And drink small sips,”

It’s important to note that only water is advisable to drink in those last two hours. Fruit juice or anything with calories will bring the same issues as eating found above.

Consuming Caffeine

Drinking coffee before bed is a recipe for a disastrous night’s sleep, but you might be consuming other caffeinated products unknowingly.

  • Coffee (even decaf)
  • Tea
  • Soda
  • Energy Drinks
  • Chocolate
  • Some Supplements
  • Chewing gum
  • Coffee/Chocolate flavored foods (ice cream, cakes, bread, cookies, etc.)
  • Some Medicines

Caffeine has a long half-life of five hours, which means that a quarter of the caffeine from a cup of coffee will still be in your blood ten hours later. Therefore, most recommend avoiding caffeine after midday to reduce the likelihood of it disturbing your sleep.

That means checking labels to make sure you’re not consuming it inadvertently.

Drinking Alcohol

Is a drink before bed helping you sleep, or is it damaging your sleep quality?

Studies have shown that there is a correlation between excessive drinking and poor sleep quality, sleep duration, and sleep disturbances.

But what about the occasional glass of wine or beer to help relax?

Alcohol can indeed help with sleep onset (falling asleep) due to its relaxing effects. However, studies show that even low amounts of alcohol decrease sleep quality by 9.3%. So it shouldn’t be a part of your daily nighttime routine.

Exercising too Late

Exercise is great for your health and your sleep. A hard workout during the day is the best way to ensure quality sleep. However, working out too intensely too close to bedtime will be detrimental to your sleep, so it’s to be avoided.

The best way to work out without destroying your sleep is to either

  • Workout at least three hours before bed
  • Do steady-state cardio or some other non-intense activity

Screens After Dark

As the sun goes down, the color of its light changes from blue to red, and then everything fades to black. These signals are hardwired into humans and tell us that it’s time to sleep.

Our devices break this signal cycle because they emit blue light – the color of the sun during the day. So when you use your phone, tablet, or laptop in the evening, your brain thinks it’s still daytime and releases cortisol to keep you awake.

Blue light filters can help reduce the amount of blue light reaching the light sensors in your eyes but turning them off is best.

Go to Sleep!

Remember, nighttime helps the brain process information and maintain your health, but only if you go to bed. Set up your evening routine to promote a good night’s sleep. If you find yourself looking for one more thing to squeeze into your routine, maybe you should stop and go to bed instead.

Gregory J. Gaynor

Meet Gregory, the writer & brains behind Face Dragons. He's the go-to guy for getting things done.

Gregory's been living the digital nomad life in Asia for as long as anyone can remember, helping clients smash their goals. He writes on topics like software, personal knowledge management (PKM), and personal development. When he's not writing, you'll catch him at the local MMA gym, nose buried in a book, or just chilling with the family.